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Nobody can possibly understand the pain and grief of losing a child unless they have walked in our shoes. Friends, please dont tell an angel Mom that she needs to "get over this" or "get on with their lives" or "get past" . Please dont say "at least you have another child" or "things could be worse" or "there's a reason for everything" or the worst "I know how you feel"?    Because you have no idea how they feel and we pray daily that no other mom will ever know how we feel. We once lived a normal life with a normal family just like you and thought just like you, that this could Never happen to us, No Way? But we found out very quickly, it can, will and did . Most of us never even got the chance to say good-by to our precious child. There is no way that you could know the feeling of walking away from a cemetery plot, leaving your child there, knowing you will never hold them again on this earth, that you have to find some way of making it thru each day without them. This is the most horrifying shock and loss you will ever know. No matter how much you think you understand, believe me, you dont and I pray you never will. I thought for several years that nobody knew how I felt, until I got a computer and started searching thru the memorial sites and cried as I felt the hurt and pain pouring off of the pages. I really thought that I was crazy until I realized how many others were walking this gried road, how many moms knew Exactly how I felt. I thank God for these moms because we walk this road together trying to encourage each other to go on, loving and supporting each other every step of the way. This is a group that none of us ever wanted to be in and it doesnt get easier, better or even normal ever again but we can make it thru, one day at a time with each ther holding onto us until we are reunited with our angel one day for eternity.